You like that ladies? I figured you would.
All jokes aside, I had a question about how you guys perceive men's bodies. A friend of mine is going through an issue where she is a little unsure about whether the guy she is seeing (a health nut) will still find her attractive when she's got some extra cushion for the pushin'. It got me to thinking myself about how I view men's bodies.
I personally don't care. If a fat guy (like fat guy) is cute, intelligent and the sex is mind blowing, I'm not caring. I would care about his health, but the cosmetic shit doesn't bother me. Naturally, he cannot be banished to his bed because he can't move, but you get it.
I love a man's body. I don't care what it looks like. I like them thick because I like to feel protected; like I have a freakin' grizzly bear next to me. I like to feel feminine. I'm a tall girl, and thick myself. This is why weight doesn't bother me. I also don't mind a toned guy either. It doesn't matter. My boyfriend should never worry about his weight because whether he has a six pack or a freakin' beer belly, I love him and want to smash the hell out of him.
If you care about the person, you should eventually talk about their health (which we do) but the washboard abs thing? Yeah, it's not that big of a deal. It really isn't. I actually only care about what's between your ears, your legs, and your shoulders.
What are your thoughts on the male body?
6/13/09
How Do You Like Your Man's Body?
Posted by Seattle Slim at 1:08 AM
Labels: Body Image, Sex
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I think that men are hot whether thick toned or thin. I think too big where u can't move in unattractive and too thin where I can't see u isn't cute either. Like u say..as long as the sex is mind blowing and I feel protected..wash board abs is not important :)
I agree. I have a huge thing for Bone Crushers lol. And I'm thick too, so who am I to have a specific type of man when I want to be seen as any other beautiful woman, you know?
I'm like all you ladies -- I like a big(ger) guy...
@Cee Frizzle: I think it's interesting that a lot of thick women say that about men -- "who am I to have a specific type of man..." but it's not the same for some big guys -- they want the stick woman and ridicule those that aren't that body type... oh the hypocrisy. LOL.
MMM...I like em thick lol. I've always have. I am a petite woman and for me there's nuthin more enjoyable than being held by my 225lb, 6'2 boyfriend.
I have dated both, the teddy bear and the smaller guy. I prefer a manly man, if that happens to come in a bigger package...yes and amen. As long as he can work the middle, all is well in my world.
Im sorry, but I do not agree with you ladies. I do not like any man larger than I am. Yes, he can be taller, but I dont like a man whos, um, bigger and rounder than moi. I actually prefer them a little smaller.
I know, Im strange. But I also have arthritic hips and a small va-jay-jay, so I need a man whos small enough to with within those parameters!
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I agree...it's not that serious where they have to be buff! On the other hand health is what matters most. Women are more subjective to physical aspects and MEN are more critical...actually WE are more critical of our own bodies hence all this damn LIPO and body chopping! good one :)
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In my 20's, I was all about athletic guys. You didn't have to play ball, but at least look like you did. My guy now was a total non-athlete, but started working out and gained about 30 lbs of muscle and looks great. What I didn't realize until I gained the knowledge and wisdom of my 30's is that (some) slender guys also are extremely agile in bed and I was totally discriminating against a whole group! I also learned that it's about what the individual is working with that makes you not even care what kind of body he may possess.
Hey there...
There's only one part of the male body that gets a reaction from me....
I think a man body alignment matters but not to much like men can get away with so much more with there body then a women.
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The human body is beautiful, but Fat is wack!
A man doesn't need to have rock hard abs and arms the size of poland spring gallons to be attractive.
But I can't tolerate a man that doesnt take care of his health and being fat and overweight is a clear statement that you don't take care of yoursef.
Forgive me if I'm intruding here - first off - I'm a man :) I'm not gay or bi but I'm no homophobe either :) I was trolling the net for pics of beautiful Black women and your post really caught my eye (see? Some of us really /do/ read the articles!) What a woman, or in this case, man, looks like seem to be secondary to "who" they are, regardless of sex.
To flip the script here - I started dating Black women about ... 20 years ago. Petite, thick, BBW, shorty to Amazon, dark as sin to light as a peach. I "like them" tall, slim and dark - was married to a light BBW shorty for over a decade. Go figure, right? Who you are matters more to me (and most men) more than what you look like. Smart and funny works for us too ...
Oh - and I'm a tall(well, 5' 10"), slim (165) white guy (big where it counts):)"Easy on the eyes" is the worst I've gotten but can I get a Sister to give me more than a "thank you" when I hold the door or compliment her hair? Where are you all hiding?!? :) I do swear I'm going to carry through on my threat and print shirts that say "SWM seeks SBF" ...
Respectfully Ladies,
Martin
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