I am a sexual being by nature. I am very into sex. I love the shit and I really enjoy it even more in a relationship. That's the best kind.
Naturally, being in a relationship for several years, you should be totally confident in trying new things. I am. I am down always. As long as it's not something that would compromise my sense of self-worth and decency.
On several occasions, I have asked Mister about something new (position, in the past it was hotels, he's over that now; role playing ideas) and he seemed not to down with it, not interested, seemed to give off the impression that it was cockamamie.
Naturally, over the years this has left me feeling saddened, unworthy, fat, etc. Which I am far from fat. If you saw me, you would amaze at my arms but I am a work in progress. I have been confused. I am unsure as to what I could be doing, if there is anything I even should be doing. Is it me? Is it him? I know that men are not good at communicating and all that, but some things should be put out there out of human decency.
Is it just me? I thought men loved nothing more than sex except their kids, video games and sports.
If I were to do this, I would be one of those women that finds sex unnecessary (my pearls!!).
What would you do if you were me?
5/27/09
When To Give Up?
Posted by Seattle Slim at 8:08 AM
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Well, from where I sit, I don't see what anyone other than 'Mister' can tell you. This is definitely one of those, 'you need to communicate with your partner' type things. Sorry I couldn't be much help, but whatever's going on with him is something that he and only he can express to you.
the conversation that should take place with Mister should not only express your ideas but why you want to explore. Mister's comments and replies should express how he feels about exploring and some of his desires.
i love your blog! will be reading more often! good luck w/ 'mister' this is def an A and B convo. keep it sweet is what i would say..and make him see why it would turn you on..i'm sure that'll cake him. :) haha
I say you know what to do and your just not doing it.
Unfortunately, your not long term compatible. I had a conversation with a younger co-worker of mine with whom I've developed a sort of kinship. We were talking about relationships & I told him one thing that really applies to you. Never commit to someone long term who doesn't fit in with your CORE VALUES. Whatever they are. Goals, Religion, children, and sex are some that are at the top of the usual lists. He's not into sex like you are. You feel stifled right now. Like an artist whose paint brushes were taken away. Find someone who fits your core values. Everything else can be worked out.
I love your blog i truely do this is why i hope that u dont take this the wrong way but... did it ever occur to u that maybe he's just tired from work or really just not in the mood? you dont have to have sex all the time u've probably tired him out! the way u talk about him shows u truely love this guy so talk to him but stop jumping to conclusions and over anaylsing his moves! i hope u'll be blogging again soon, stay safe x
Hey, I like rice and beans I hate macaroni and cheese. No matter how much someone tries to get me to eat mac and cheese I WONT TOUCH IT. I'm happy with my rice. It has nothing to do with how they cook or don't cook or how I feel about them as a person. We just have different tastes.
If he is satisfied and you want him to try something that is distasteful to him, its quite possible that it is just not appealing to him.
Its sort of the same when a man wants a woman to do oral or anal and she wont, its not HIM, its that she doesnt want to do oral or anal.
If the man is otherwise happy with you, I wouldnt personalize it. Y'all just have different tastes.
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