I am sure this won't be the last update because this guy is relentless.
Folks, I am not cheating on Mister with anyone. I have done the cheating thing and shame on me. I still cry when I realize all the hurt I caused a genuinely good person. I also love the man I am with. Shit, I'm wildly in love to the point where I feel like a teenager again, and this is after three years and some change.
With that out of the way, let me begin and explain why there isn't much of a sexual harassment type thing going on. Technically...
I have been sexually harassed before. When I brought it up, little was done and I was questioned. Not a lot of good memories to go with that, and I do not trust much will change now.
It's hard to believe in a system that believes you probably deserve it, because after all, I am a saucy negress. (Sarcasm)
For all my badassness, I am not assertive. In one too many cases and am in shock when he does this shit. I just come to work!
Since I wrote this, he has played footsy with me (he kicked at me, I didn't kick back), he's gotten close to me to poke at me, gotten close behind me (thought he was going to bend me over and push my skirt up he was so close), teased me, but he's also been cold. This is what is confusing. He will be crazy flirtatious, the super professional/cool in the same day. This is why I am like, "Okay, maybe he is just flirty and it is nothing."
I would kill my bf/husband if I knew he was doing this stuff. I understand karma, and do not want this to happen to me.
It reminds me of high school where the dude gives off vibes one day that he likes you, then the next, he pretends you don't exist and back and forth.
This is some ish!
5/26/09
Update #1 On Aren't You Married?
Posted by Seattle Slim at 3:45 PM
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The same thing happened to me at work. This married, blue-eyed, hottie & I hit it off (I'm divorced). I could feel the chemistry between us - needless to say I was hot for him. By the look in his eyes I knew he wanted me too. He got my personal email address pretending to want to share something with me on youtube. He emailed the links, but also sent his username so we could setup an online chat session. Well, during our online chat, he told me some of the dirtiest things he wanted to do to me. He got me extremely hot and bothered. I opened up and told him what I wanted to do to him. We chatted for hours. We chatted like this on 2 separate occasions - expressing very hot, steamy sexual desires toward each other. I emailed him to setup a love break with him, but here is where it got strange. After all that, he began to ignore me at work and didn't respond to my emails. Hot one day and cold the next - just like your coworker. If he saw me in the hallway or at the elevator, he would simiply say Hello, nothing further. It was evident that he was not responding to me in person as online. He was not a true player. Long story short, he wouldn't cheat on his wife! After all that. I really don't understand why this man played games with me - but I kept my dignity and emailed him saying I had no hard feelings - see you around. He continued to look at me with hungry eyes at work, but he avoided close contact with me and stopped coming to my cubicle to talk. His marriage would have been placed in jeopardy had he done those things to me. I couldn't understand his behavor at first, but he is preserving his marriage. What else could it be? Normally, I avoid married men, but he was someone *way* different. It turned out for the best. Thankfully, I no longer work there.
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