Life without sex would kill me. As it stands imy sexual intake has been reduced as Mister is going through some things. I am feeling lonely and moody. God knows I'm depressed. I do not want to and will not cheat but I am slowly going insane.
I am trying to be understanding as they are health related issues he is facing, but I am having a hard time. I just don't know how to cope I guess. We know what to do to fix it, but how long will it take? How long can I keep my mojo?
I have become envious of others. I feel like I am the only one in the world suffering. I know that's wrong but I will attribute such insanity to my lack of sex. I haven't gotten laid since Sunday morning (early). I don't know when my next roll in the hay will come and it bothers me.
Have any of you gone through this? How did you deal with a slow in sexual activity in your relationship?
11/11/08
I Am Losing It
Posted by Seattle Slim at 8:15 PM
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its funny that 3 days for you is a long time. Lol try going without sex for a few months. <--story of my sad life. itss something you get used to. i dont even think about it so much anymore. i busy myself so much that i dont give myself a chance to think about sex or lack thereof. 3 days, ha!! even when i was in a relationship i couldnt see myself having sex every day or every other day. a break is good sometimes. plus, the kitty cat needs a break ya know?
Girl, when you find out .....let us know. I am dealing with the same issues. It keeps slowing down and he no longer takes control like he used to. It's mainly due to the weight he's been gaining. He just doesn't have the energy. It's becoming monotonous, plus he's 7 yrs older than me and I am just getting my spark.... I feel like he's losing his.
I will say this though. I am with you. Yes, the kitty kat needs a break ,but mama needs some loving. When I want it I want it, I don't care about breaks or timelines or any of that stuff. I am married and have been with honey for six yrs since I was 17. But what can you do? Stay occupied, that's the best way to keep you from straying. I was celibate for a whole year while me and honey were separated. How you ask? I worked a FT job, a PT job on weekends and was at church whenever the doors were open. You don't have to work yourself to death like I did, but staying busy is the key. Find a hobby or something, sex is just a bonus, right??? Who am I kidding. LOL! Its a big deal in the MOMENT.
i definitely know how you FEEL...
I GUESS MY SITUATION IS A BIT DIFFERENT SINCE I AM A SINGLE woman...
but i haven't had it in about a month and i'm goin crzy...
toys can never take the place of a warm body...lls
i definitely feel ur PAIN.
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